I remind people that a horse’s skin twitches when a fly lands
on it. So why does a horse tend to “lose”
that level of sensitivity the more he is handled by humans? People frequently send unintentional or mixed
signals and accidentally desensitize their horses when not meaning to do
so. As time progresses it sometimes
seems to take increased effort and energy from a person while getting less
participation from their horse. If it
is taking a “lot” of energy from you to get a response from your horse,
something isn’t clear.
A horse arriving for an assessment I approach having no assumptions
irrelevant of his age, experience or past training. People are surprised at how many “finished”
horses still have some major holes in their basic education.
My goal is to see a horse think BEFORE he moves. I want to see his eyes and ears focus
towards where I direct them, to see a relaxed emotional and physical state and consistent
breathing. Once he offers these things, a horse is usually
mentally available to “hear” what I am asking of him physically.
I suggest folks evaluate the clarity and effectiveness of
their communication with their horse through both spatial and/or physical
pressure using something practical to communicate with, such as a lead rope.
The initial “conversation” with the horse should include (not
necessarily in this order) yielding to light pressure, a willingness to following
pressure, the ability to think (without moving) towards the left, right,
forward and backward. Assess if the
horse offers to softly step on or towards something and shift his weight when asked? Is he respectful of “personal space?” Does
the horse’s curiosity increase when something new is presented? (Sadly sometimes the more education/experience
a horse has the less curious and interested in “life” he becomes.) Does the horse happily “search” for what is
being asked, or does he try one or two options and then mentally check out and
physically shut down if he didn’t figure out what was being presented?
Excessive/unwanted movement from the horse usually develops
from too much chaos created by a person who may be doing things such as “driving”
with the lead rope, micromanaging, endless repetition, patternized routines,
etc. I’d like for a student to move less
casually and more intentionally. This will help their horse’s brain to focus on
something specific, and then offer how much “energy” they want their horse to
move with through increasing their own energy.
Whether lining up with the mounting block, crossing water,
standing on a tarp or loading into a horse trailer, the focus should not be on
accomplishing the final “task” at hand, but rather for the horse to be mentally
present and available, offering a “What would you like?” mentality as oppose to
the more typical and defensive “Why should I?”
A new client recently attempted to load her horse into her
trailer the “old” way by pressuring the horse’s hindquarters. She never noticed that her horse was not
looking at the horse trailer. I suggested through using the now effective
“tool” the lead rope had become, she could narrow the horse’s thoughts from
looking at everything EXCEPT the trailer to directing them to thinking solely into
the trailer. Once the horse finally
acknowledged the trailer, the horse quietly and reasonably offered to place one
foot in the trailer, paused, then offered the second front foot. He
stood half way in the trailer and took a deep breath.
They stood, they breathed and they relaxed. He backed out when asked. She asked him to “think in the trailer” and
again he gently loaded his front end and paused. When she asked him to think “further” into the
trailer, he loaded all four feet, quietly waited for her to ask him to move up
to the front and stood nicely while tied.
The owner was shocked by how little effort it took when
compared to past experiences. I explained
adding “gas” or “driving” the horse with pressure to get him to load, without
having a “steering wheel” was going to add chaos to the horse’s already
distracted brain and add to his insecurity.
Instead slow down his thoughts until he focused on one simple,
attainable task, such as “Think straight.”
Then add, “Think straight, take one step.” We just happen to be thinking “into” the
horse trailer.
Mental and physical “baby steps” can decrease overwhelming
feelings that stress humans and horses in new or unfamiliar scenarios. Slowing down allows the opportunity to mentally
digest what is happening and it gives the person time to offer their horse specific
and clear direction. Learning to help
SUPPORT the horse will increase his confidence every time he tries something
new.
I smile as I remember various scenarios where I’ve casually
taken away numerous quick-fix training gadgets that people truly believed would
help improve their horsemanship and help their horse “overcome” a problem but
really were Band-Aid “solutions” for a short while.
Teaching people and horses to think first, then physically act,
and by using simple tools to communicate effectively and clearly, will allow
both to achieve a calmer, safer and satisfying partnership.
Here is to keeping it simple…
Sam
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