Tips for the Insecure, Anxious, Anticipative, or Timid Rider

 The timid/unsure rider comes from a place of feeling "surprised" by what the horse does or feeling ineffective towards their horse.

Fear Limiting our Horsemanship

The fear of "getting it wrong" can overwhelm people into doing nothing. Avoidance is a common "tactic" with both people and horses. The mental anticipation by the human can interfere with their ability to be present for their horse, having thoughts such as:

"Last time I tried to ___________ my horse __________ and I don't want that to happen again."

"What if my horse _______, then we won't be able to _______, so I better not ________ to cause an issue."