When I have a few minutes I’ll sit down and write an in depth account of the fantastic seven weeks I spent at the southern tip of South America… But from the equine related aspects here are a few of the glaring differences I saw in the time I spent around the horses south of the equator.
1.) Treated Like Horses
The animals are bred in natural settings, born in nature without human assistance and raised in a herd. Because the seasons are reversed, I was present to see several births (from a distance) and then watch within a few days the colts climbing sheer 6,000-10,000 foot cliffs. They learned how to find wind blocks from the consistent 50-70mph winds. They learned how to find the snowmelt and fresh water. They learned how to forage and find the freshest grasses. And when the “unknown” approached, they were alert with a sensibility, rather than reactivity.
2.) Exposure
Although for the most part horses are kept in open range scenarios, there was also the reality that basically horse trailers don’t exist. The roads are bad at best, and it is often easier and faster to ride to where you need to go. So as you rode down the road you’d pass a variety of cars, mini semi’s, barking dogs, piles of equipment waiting to be used, the hides of various animals hanging on fence lines (as all parts of a butchered animal is used, not just the meat), etc. Keep in mind the wind is a constant, so any discarded trash, flapping tin roofs, etc. were continually flying about, making obnoxious noises, never mind the never ending barrage of random barking dogs that would appear out of nowhere.
3. Get with the program
Once you arrived, there was nothing to tie to. So it was totally normal to have a horse standing fully tacked, with the bridle on, ground tied in three feet deep lush grass, in the middle of nowhere, and wait. This could be for five minutes or five hours. During this time other horses may come or go, but if you dropped the reins, the horse realized his “job” was to watch and wait. When moving livestock on foot, the ground tied horses would move themselves to watch the working dogs and humans sort animals.
4.) Thoughtfulness vs. fleeing
I witnessed on more than one occasion if gauchos were passing through the area, they would appear and randomly let three or four of their horses loose on the side of the road to graze. FOR SEVERAL DAYS. The horses would stay put only meandering a ¼ mile or so during that time. Then the gauchos would easily catch them and ride on.
5.) “Ride or die” kind of partnership
Most people don’t realize the hidden ecosystem and phenomenal landscape that awaits at the “ends of the earth.” I’ve traveled to most continents and have been to many, many beautiful places in the world, but what I witnessed on this trip was jaw dropping. Often with amazing scenery it is gorgeous to look at from a distance, but impassible.
Unless of course you have the 4x4 version of South American horsepower. For those of you who have seen the movie, The Man From Snowy River, and know the classic “off the cliff scene,” well, that had nothing on some of the places I rode.
And I can honestly say I’ve only ridden maybe two horses in my life that I would have trusted in that extreme environment, but down south there was this confidence in the animal that truly renewed my faith that there were still some horses that had maintained what “horses used to be”- mentally, emotionally and physically.
Oh yeah, and remember whatever goes straight up, must ride straight down, and yet I never felt worry, a misstep, or concern from the horses, even when asking them to do something they hadn’t planned to do…
6.) The horses that had issues
Ironically were the ones whose “training” was based on western society’s police/classical programs. They were not the typical 14.3-15.1H local rough stock but rather imported Thoroughbred types. They were tacked in standing martingales, double bridles, with officers holding crops and wearing spurs. The horses (and I saw this in several cities) displayed frazzled nerves as they “paroled” (or my guess would be probably “survived” in the horse’s mind) the streets of a town. Agitated, fussy, worried, and insecure and stressed out. Hmmm…
I'll be adding more about the trip when I have a few minutes!
Sam
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Humans, Horses and Pressure
Horses, Humans and Pressure
When we work with a horse we primarily use two forms of
pressure to communicate, physical pressure (the lead rope attached to the
halter, the rein, the leg, the seat, etc.) or spatial pressure (not touching
the horse but able to influence his brain and movement.) Vocal commands are the
third, less common form of pressure.
A horse’s natural response to pressure is to flee from it,
become defensive towards it, or to physically “challenge” it, which causes him
to be unable to “hear” the person. The
horse needs to learn that pressure offered by a person can be a positive way to
communicate.
It should be thought of as a tool that affects the clarity
of communication between a person and their horse. It can be used to teach the horse to be
respectful towards personal space, defining literal and imaginary
boundaries. Whether from the ground or
in the saddle, teaching the horse to follow, soften and yield to the pressure
of a lead rope, rein, leg or your seat are quality and necessary aids. It should and can be used to teach the horse
to become mentally available before offering physical movement.
The term “pressure” often has a negative association due to
the misuse of it through a person’s attempts of controlling and micromanaging the
horse. Pressure forcing a horse into
submission whether through physical dominance, using gadgets and devices or
physically wearing down the horse tends to evolve into a battle of the
wills. Pressure by forcing something
upon the horse until he has to choose between the “lessors of two evils” has no
quality outcome. Physically aggressive pressure or “driving” the horse as a
tactic basically scares a horse into doing something (crossing water, trailer
loading, passing the scary spot on the trail) and contributes to distrust between
horse and person.
Due to a misunderstanding, inattentiveness, distraction, and
lack of awareness, many people unintentionally communicate a constant barrage
of chaos through both spatial and physical pressure. A “busy-ness” from a person in their activity
with the lead rope/rein/leg dulls the horse and teaches the horse to ignore the
person and become defensive towards pressure. Having slow, after-the-fact critical responses
towards their horse, inconsistently allowing behaviors, and not establishing
clear boundaries are common contributors leading to a horse’s resistance towards
any form of pressure.
People tend to hurry in life and often the same applies to
their horsemanship. Accomplishing the
“task” often becomes the focal point, rather than addressing the quality of communication
they have with their horse. As long as the horse mostly “goes along” with what
is asked, people tend to accept the horse’s behavior. But without effective “tools” (I don’t mean
gadgets, rather how a person uses pressure to communicate) they often wind up
at the “mercy” of the horse or “surviving” the ride. This then creates a cycle of worry, fear and
insecurity in both human and horse.
Take a few minutes to evaluate your relationship with your
horse, considering the following questions:
If you walk into the pasture/stall does your horse
automatically move away from you (fleeing from your spatial pressure)? Does he approach nicely but “hover” in your
personal space (delegating the pecking order of where you’re at in his herd)? If you raise your hands to halter him does he
move his head up, away, or “dive” into the halter (defensive, anticipative,
disrespectful)? When leading him is he
lethargic and slow in response, does he try to “hide” behind you as you walk,
does it feel like he is “leading” you and rushing, or does he constantly walk
with his head cranked over his shoulder with his body bumping into you?
If you walk past grass or a buddy horse does he try to drag
you over to where he wants to go? If you
ask him to stop moving using the lead rope lightly does he respond slowly, is
over-reactive, or completely ignores you?
If you walk faster or slower does he mimic your energy with his, or does
he only offer one speed irrelevant of what you’re asking?
If he is tied does he paw, wiggle, chew on the lead rope,
pull back against the rope, or move away from you as you groom/tack him? When you mount, does he stand still, walk off
before you’re ready, or fidget if asked him to stand longer than he wanted?
If you’ve answered yes to any of the above questions, there probably
needs to be a re-defining (even in “accomplished” or “broke” horses) as to their
interpretation of pressure and the quality of your communication. A person can be actively supportive of the
horse through the use of respectful pressure.
But if the horse feels defensive towards pressure, you are limiting your
tools and options when communicating, helping and supporting your horse.
The mental availability and physical behavior your horse
offers while working with him from the ground typically decreases in quality when
you ride. If you dislike what your horse
is offering now, don’t wait until later to address it. The horse feels a fly land on him, he can
feel you. If he disregards you when you
ask something minor, what will happen when you ask more of him? Any initial display of resistance will only
increase as you put him in situations that are stressful or not his idea.
Taking the time to refine the quality of the basic use of
pressure while on the ground will set the standard for the upcoming ride. Remember, the conversation starts with your
horse the moment you halter him and does not end until you turn him loose
again. At times it may feel like you are
going “slow” but in the long run you will accomplish more with a quality physical
outcome and at the same time achieve a rewarding partnership between you and
your horse.
Sam
Gratitude
Today is a day of celebration here in the USA, and it is
fitting that I have had an ongoing “theme” in my head that keeps becoming more apparent
in everything I do.
In my lifestyle every time I check one thing off of the “to
do” list, I always seem to add four more things. There is never enough time nor enough hours
in the day.
But I’ve come to accept that it is not selfish to make time
for myself to mentally, emotionally and physically re-center; this of course
affects everything that I do. So after a
10 year gap, I have finally prioritized taking the time to restart practicing yoga. For me it isn’t about physically contorting
myself into what feels most unnatural and difficult positons. It is about allowing me the opportunity to
mentally, emotionally and physically learn to be “still” and to regroup.
One of the many things taught in yoga is gratitude. This concept has been running through my head
for a while over the last few weeks, but as I was mowing in the blazing heat
today (my time-to-think) urgency came over me, that I should write a blog about
it, so here it goes.
This will be more of a rambling of thoughts to put out there
into the universe. Perhaps you’ll be
able to relate to some of my thoughts, laugh at some or they may be something
for you to consider in your own life and time spent with the horses.
I am grateful that during the past 20 years of working with
horses I have learned to listen more and more to that little “voice” in my head
that has steered me through many “forks in the road.”
I am grateful to all the horses that have taught me much
more than I will ever teach them.
I am grateful to have “been there” in the last moments of a
horse’s life, and to watch the moment they have accepted “letting go” and
peacefully passed.
I am grateful of the moments when I have been overwhelmed
and emotionally hurt, and having a horse walk up and gently rest his head near
mine, breathing softly down my neck, as if he were attempting to comfort me in
my moment of pain.
I am grateful for the opportunity to participate in the
on-going journey in both horse and human lives.
I am grateful for all of the clients who have put their
faith and trust in my words and teachings and have felt the benefit of it, not
just within the partnership with their horse, but also the trickle down affects
it has on the rest of their lives.
I am grateful for all the kids in pigtails on resistant
ponies who I have watched grow, evolve and mature into quality human beings now
leading fulfilling lives of their own.
I am grateful for the resistant, difficult and troubled
horses that force me to be the best version of myself in order for me to be
able to help them.
I am grateful for clients’ kind words that give me energy,
reinvigorate and feed my desire to continue helping those who are truly committed
to learning.
I am grateful that in all the ups and downs and
inconsistencies in the horse world that I found enough resolve within myself to
not “change” the quality of what I offered in lieu of making more money.
I am grateful to everyday be mentally present enough to slow
down and watch a butterfly land on a flower or a mama deer teach her newborn
fawn how to cross the big infield, as I sit on a horse learning how to just “stand
and wait.”
I am grateful for the hours of sweat, labor and dirt that
goes into running The Equestrian Center and am proud that when people and
horses arrive, they immediately respond to the “stillness” and sanctuary the
facility often provides.
I am grateful for all the quality horsemen who opened their
ranches and shared their knowledge with someone who didn’t “come from their
world”. Their stories of the vanishing
west, their innate understanding of the animals and their profound respect for
nature still continues to have a daily impact on my life.
I am grateful to have witnessed “behind closed doors” the
drugging, politics and abuse of the animals that during the initial years was
the only way I knew about “doing horses.”
The opportunity to have to make a choice, go against the “grain,” stand
on my own and make a moral and ethical choice at a major fork in the road were
the first steps leading to the journey I continue, even to this today.
I am grateful for small local groups to nationally recognized
organizations that have taken a risk by inviting me to share my “alternative”
perspectives and teachings with their groups.
I am grateful for the varying folks from all walks of life who
have allowed me the opportunity to share my world and spend a few weeks to a few
months here on the farm. Their initial goals
of learning about horses tend to evolve into life lessons and seem to have
lasting effects.
I am grateful to the challenges nature and her weather has
served me over the years; from extreme down pours, freezing temperatures to
scathing heat and 80 mph windstorms with severe damage; it is always humbling
to remember just how little “we are” in the grand scheme of things.
I am grateful for having to learn how to do things that don’t
come naturally, running and fixing equipment, building and mending fence…
Learning how to manage pastures, grow gardens and develop sustainable farm
practices.
I am grateful for learning how to back the 42’ horse trailer
for the times I’m in a jam and have to “squeeze in” to some inconceivable spot
while traveling on the road.
I’m grateful for the always seemingly happy tow truck
drivers who have repaired and assisted in 2am snowstorms all the while
maintaining a smile on their face.
I’m grateful for the random folks who have arrived at the
facility during their own personal growth journey and quickly realize the shared
connection we have in living a proactive life.
I am grateful for all the times I’ve proved to myself I
could do things I’d never imagined doing years before, and that years before
choices I’d made had prepared me for the moment I was at.
I am grateful to have found a calm and inner peace that
allows me perspective on anything that seems initially overwhelming, and as I’ve
learned, a few minutes, a few hours or a few days later, it just doesn’t seem
that bad anymore!
I am grateful for the hilarious antics I’ve witnessed the
horses get in to over the years. To
watch initially shut-down, unavailable horses re-emerge as curious creatures is
an amazing experience. The brightness in
their eyes, the lightness in their movements, it is breath taking.
I am grateful at the end of a long, hard day, to watch the
wild animals and horses comfortably graze in the fields with not a care in the
world. As I always say, a field just isn’t the same without a horse in it.
My list goes on and on… but I just thought it was
appropriate to share on this day.
May you carry gratitude with you in all that you do…
Sam
Gratitude
Today is a day of celebration here in the USA, and it is
fitting that I have had an ongoing “theme” in my head that keeps becoming more apparent
in everything I do.
In my lifestyle every time I check one thing off of the “to
do” list, I always seem to add four more things. There is never enough time nor enough hours
in the day.
But I’ve come to accept that it is not selfish to make time
for myself to mentally, emotionally and physically re-center; this of course
affects everything that I do. So after a
10 year gap, I have finally prioritized taking the time to restart practicing yoga. For me it isn’t about physically contorting
myself into what feels most unnatural and difficult positons. It is about allowing me the opportunity to
mentally, emotionally and physically learn to be “still” and to regroup.
One of the many things taught in yoga is gratitude. This concept has been running through my head
for a while over the last few weeks, but as I was mowing in the blazing heat
today (my time-to-think) urgency came over me, that I should write a blog about
it, so here it goes.
This will be more of a rambling of thoughts to put out there
into the universe. Perhaps you’ll be
able to relate to some of my thoughts, laugh at some or they may be something
for you to consider in your own life and time spent with the horses.
I am grateful that during the past 20 years of working with
horses I have learned to listen more and more to that little “voice” in my head
that has steered me through many “forks in the road.”
I am grateful to all the horses that have taught me much
more than I will ever teach them.
I am grateful to have “been there” in the last moments of a
horse’s life, and to watch the moment they have accepted “letting go” and
peacefully passed.
I am grateful of the moments when I have been overwhelmed
and emotionally hurt, and having a horse walk up and gently rest his head near
mine, breathing softly down my neck, as if he were attempting to comfort me in
my moment of pain.
I am grateful for the opportunity to participate in the
on-going journey in both horse and human lives.
I am grateful for all of the clients who have put their
faith and trust in my words and teachings and have felt the benefit of it, not
just within the partnership with their horse, but also the trickle down affects
it has on the rest of their lives.
I am grateful for all the kids in pigtails on resistant
ponies who I have watched grow, evolve and mature into quality human beings now
leading fulfilling lives of their own.
I am grateful for the resistant, difficult and troubled
horses that force me to be the best version of myself in order for me to be
able to help them.
I am grateful for clients’ kind words that give me energy,
reinvigorate and feed my desire to continue helping those who are truly committed
to learning.
I am grateful that in all the ups and downs and
inconsistencies in the horse world that I found enough resolve within myself to
not “change” the quality of what I offered in lieu of making more money.
I am grateful to everyday be mentally present enough to slow
down and watch a butterfly land on a flower or a mama deer teach her newborn
fawn how to cross the big infield, as I sit on a horse learning how to just “stand
and wait.”
I am grateful for the hours of sweat, labor and dirt that
goes into running The Equestrian Center and am proud that when people and
horses arrive, they immediately respond to the “stillness” and sanctuary the
facility often provides.
I am grateful for all the quality horsemen who opened their
ranches and shared their knowledge with someone who didn’t “come from their
world”. Their stories of the vanishing
west, their innate understanding of the animals and their profound respect for
nature still continues to have a daily impact on my life.
I am grateful to have witnessed “behind closed doors” the
drugging, politics and abuse of the animals that during the initial years was
the only way I knew about “doing horses.”
The opportunity to have to make a choice, go against the “grain,” stand
on my own and make a moral and ethical choice at a major fork in the road were
the first steps leading to the journey I continue, even to this today.
I am grateful for small local groups to nationally recognized
organizations that have taken a risk by inviting me to share my “alternative”
perspectives and teachings with their groups.
I am grateful for the varying folks from all walks of life who
have allowed me the opportunity to share my world and spend a few weeks to a few
months here on the farm. Their initial goals
of learning about horses tend to evolve into life lessons and seem to have
lasting effects.
I am grateful to the challenges nature and her weather has
served me over the years; from extreme down pours, freezing temperatures to
scathing heat and 80 mph windstorms with severe damage; it is always humbling
to remember just how little “we are” in the grand scheme of things.
I am grateful for having to learn how to do things that don’t
come naturally, running and fixing equipment, building and mending fence…
Learning how to manage pastures, grow gardens and develop sustainable farm
practices.
I am grateful for learning how to back the 42’ horse trailer
for the times I’m in a jam and have to “squeeze in” to some inconceivable spot
while traveling on the road.
I’m grateful for the always seemingly happy tow truck
drivers who have repaired and assisted in 2am snowstorms all the while
maintaining a smile on their face.
I’m grateful for the random folks who have arrived at the
facility during their own personal growth journey and quickly realize the shared
connection we have in living a proactive life.
I am grateful for all the times I’ve proved to myself I
could do things I’d never imagined doing years before, and that years before
choices I’d made had prepared me for the moment I was at.
I am grateful to have found a calm and inner peace that
allows me perspective on anything that seems initially overwhelming, and as I’ve
learned, a few minutes, a few hours or a few days later, it just doesn’t seem
that bad anymore!
I am grateful for the hilarious antics I’ve witnessed the
horses get in to over the years. To
watch initially shut-down, unavailable horses re-emerge as curious creatures is
an amazing experience. The brightness in
their eyes, the lightness in their movements, it is breath taking.
I am grateful at the end of a long, hard day, to watch the
wild animals and horses comfortably graze in the fields with not a care in the
world. As I always say, a field just isn’t the same without a horse in it.
My list goes on and on… but I just thought it was
appropriate to share on this day.
May you carry gratitude with you in all that you do…
Sam
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