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Herd Bound Behavior- Resistance between Human and Horse
Unwanted scenarios- opportunities for improving your partnership!
Many times when folks are working with horses, they’d like
it to be a relaxing, enjoyable experience.
Yet often horses and humans need to build a quality partnership in order
to achieve a rewarding ride for the both of them. What most riders forget is that no matter how
“trained” a horse is, they are still looking to their rider for guidance,
confidence and boundaries. They are a
herd animal and they are deciding if they or their rider is the “leader” of
their herd.
The horse will question the pecking order of the herd the
rider and he create, but it may not seem apparent on calm, ideal days. When circumstances beyond our control arise,
and stress levels increase, typically only then do we as riders start to realize
that perhaps the quality of the partnership we share with our horse is not as “ideal”
as we would like to think.
As I’ve mentioned in past blogs, if you give most riders the
option, they will do everything they can to avoid a confrontation or
uncomfortable scenario with their horse.
Horses often realize this and have mastered becoming fantastic “people
trainers” as I say- teaching the human how to work around them in order to
avoid any conflict. The ideal for me is that
the horse asks “What would you like?,” and learns to work around the human.
The idea to write this blog came up as I went to work a
horse this morning. I spend my winters in
the desert, where one would think life is a lot more boring than my summers
spent in the inland northwest, but actually that is not the case. Down here near North America’s largest sand
dunes we have wind, (it took ten years before it occurred to me that ALL of that
wind was what built the sand dunes), and when I say wind I mean sand-blasting,
scary-discarded-trash blowing, tarps constantly flapping,
scary-animal-dashing-from-citrus groves, horse-tails standing
straight-out-to-the-side kind of wind.
I’ve experienced wind in other notorious places such as
Texas and Wyoming- and of course the ever present wind in Patagonia, but
somehow the wind here in the Arizona desert has extra elements of “scariness”
in terms of horses. Add in the fact that
this is the produce capital of world during the winter, so heavy duty farm equipment
randomly appears at various times. There’s
also a marine base and I’m near the flight approach/take off path; military
personal from all over the world come here to “practice” and so it is very
common to have a “Top Gun” show as a daily occurrence. Nothing like getting on a colt for the first
time with the horse’s body literally vibrating from the sound of six F18s
flying low and overhead.
Then of course there’s the sheep. The town here is a mixture of new and old,
traditional and modern. Often after
several cuttings of alfalfa hay have been raised, herds of sheep are escorted
down the main roads (herded by a few men with flags, a couple of dogs, a ram
and a goat,) and will randomly appear in an old hay field with three strands of
temporary hotwire fence strung up. A few
days later they’ll be moved on to another field. That’ll get every horse in the barn to stand
at full attention and often they display physical feats of aerial acrobatics as
if trying out for the Spanish Riding School
In this desert, there are no mountains in sight. Any activity happening can often been seen
and or heard from miles away; to the A.D.D. horse you can imagine how
distracting that might be.
Anyhow one of our wind storms began brewing last night and
by this morning the sky was thick with sand and debris, the trees were bent
over and the air was heavy with the horses concern. Most people avoid heading out to work with a
horse on a day like today, but for me, I see it as an opportunity. Just as when I look to buy a horse I want to
see the “worst” side of the horse rather than the sales pitch, when I’m working
with a horse, I’m looking for opportunities to create a solid citizen. I’m not striving for the “perfect” ride, but
rather to be there to help and support him experience a naturally scary
scenario and perhaps influence a change in his brain and emotions as to how he
perceives the chaos around him so that he learns to react in a physical
respectful, calm and safe manner.
Because the horse is a prey animal, the natural instinct
when unsure is to run. But my job is to
teach the unnatural response of, “Stop, think, and ask what the rider wants,”
then offer a physical movement. This not
only decreases the chances of a dramatic reaction from the horse, but also
builds confidence in him and the fear switches to a curiosity as to what is
happening around him. Changing from the
instinctual fleeing to curious mode literally allows more “time” for
communication between rider and horse, a mental participation from the horse which
in turn creates a physical softness.
This builds his confidence emotionally and mentally when a situation isn’t
ideal.
So rather than “challenging” the horse to be obedient on a
scary day, I would rather break down the “scariness” of it all- starting on the
ground. Rather than trying to avoid what
may be bothersome, I will break things down and ask the horse to only mentally
consider one or two things, and then offer ways for him to find softness in his
body, brains and emotions, so that he can figure out how he really feels about
something. The more he learns how to
think while I’m on the ground working with him, the more this increases his
confidence while I’m in the saddle.
The other part of avoiding the less than ideal circumstances
is that people are taught that things cannot get “ugly”- by this I mean many
people have the goal be striving for the ideal ride. But often the ground work during less than
ideal scenarios, such as when a horse mentally and emotionally is falling apart
needs to be addressed so that the horse can learn how to let go of feelings of
concern, worry and fear. If he is taught
to “stuff” those emotions, they will continue to build inside of him, even if
on the outside he is appearing as being obedient. It will only be a matter of time before all
of those pent up emotions come out physically dramatic.
I on the other hand I would like an honest “response” from
the horse for whatever he feels. That
being said, there are spatial and behavioral boundaries that need to be established
before the scary day along with effective communication aids, so that when the
horse becomes brainless and reactive, the person has a way to help the horse
work through the stress, rather than reprimanded him for not behaving. As I say, embrace the tantrum, but don’t
leave him in it. Help the horse “get” to
the other side. Remember the physically
dramatic behavior is a reflection of the horse’s brain and emotions. Change how he feels on the inside, the
behavior on the outside will decrease in dramatic, dangerous reactivity.
Every time a horse starts to get bothered and a person
critiques him or instead uses it as an opportunity to build his confidence can
detract or contribute to the quality of long term partnership and physical
behavior of the horse. Unwanted
behaviors/insecurities/worries/fears do not randomly disappear. Attempting to “desensitize” the horse through
repetitious behavior may temporarily work for that scary tarp, but it is only
teaching the horse to tolerate the scary tarp, rather than changing how he
feels about it. The day you move the
tarp, it’ll feel like you’ll have to start all over again. Instead, change how he feels about the tarp,
then it will not matter where the tarp is.
So the next time you have an opportunity in a less-than-ideal
circumstance, of course prioritizing your safety first, perhaps experiment with
approaching your horse’s concern with being a supportive influence, rather than
a critical one or just avoiding the situation all together.
Good Luck,
Sam
Full Immersion Clinic 2016 Dates with Samantha Harvey
2016 Full Immersion Clinic Dates Finalized...
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June- Full Immersion Clinic #1
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June 3-5, 2016
July- Full Immersion Clinic #2
The Equestrian Center, LLC, Sandpoint, ID
July 15-17, 2016
August- Full Immersion Clinic #3
The Equestrian Center, LLC, Sandpoint, ID
August 5-7, 2016
Researching the “equine professional”
In the
last week I received three different phone calls from potential clients around
the country. Although each had a varying
equine experience, each had the same underlying root cause with their horse’s
current dangerous, insecure, and dramatic behavior. Each person had sent their horse to a
“reputable” trainer; once their horse returned home they each were surprised to
find their horse an emotional wreck and physically dangerous. The owners are at a loss and are trying to do
damage control and figure out how to cope with their now unrecognizable horses.
A few glaring differences in the horses south of the equator...
When I have a few minutes I’ll sit down and write an in depth account of the fantastic seven weeks I spent at the southern tip of South America… But from the equine related aspects here are a few of the glaring differences I saw in the time I spent around the horses south of the equator.
1.) Treated Like Horses
The animals are bred in natural settings, born in nature without human assistance and raised in a herd. Because the seasons are reversed, I was present to see several births (from a distance) and then watch within a few days the colts climbing sheer 6,000-10,000 foot cliffs. They learned how to find wind blocks from the consistent 50-70mph winds. They learned how to find the snowmelt and fresh water. They learned how to forage and find the freshest grasses. And when the “unknown” approached, they were alert with a sensibility, rather than reactivity.
2.) Exposure
Although for the most part horses are kept in open range scenarios, there was also the reality that basically horse trailers don’t exist. The roads are bad at best, and it is often easier and faster to ride to where you need to go. So as you rode down the road you’d pass a variety of cars, mini semi’s, barking dogs, piles of equipment waiting to be used, the hides of various animals hanging on fence lines (as all parts of a butchered animal is used, not just the meat), etc. Keep in mind the wind is a constant, so any discarded trash, flapping tin roofs, etc. were continually flying about, making obnoxious noises, never mind the never ending barrage of random barking dogs that would appear out of nowhere.
3. Get with the program
Once you arrived, there was nothing to tie to. So it was totally normal to have a horse standing fully tacked, with the bridle on, ground tied in three feet deep lush grass, in the middle of nowhere, and wait. This could be for five minutes or five hours. During this time other horses may come or go, but if you dropped the reins, the horse realized his “job” was to watch and wait. When moving livestock on foot, the ground tied horses would move themselves to watch the working dogs and humans sort animals.
4.) Thoughtfulness vs. fleeing
I witnessed on more than one occasion if gauchos were passing through the area, they would appear and randomly let three or four of their horses loose on the side of the road to graze. FOR SEVERAL DAYS. The horses would stay put only meandering a ¼ mile or so during that time. Then the gauchos would easily catch them and ride on.
5.) “Ride or die” kind of partnership
Most people don’t realize the hidden ecosystem and phenomenal landscape that awaits at the “ends of the earth.” I’ve traveled to most continents and have been to many, many beautiful places in the world, but what I witnessed on this trip was jaw dropping. Often with amazing scenery it is gorgeous to look at from a distance, but impassible.
Unless of course you have the 4x4 version of South American horsepower. For those of you who have seen the movie, The Man From Snowy River, and know the classic “off the cliff scene,” well, that had nothing on some of the places I rode.
And I can honestly say I’ve only ridden maybe two horses in my life that I would have trusted in that extreme environment, but down south there was this confidence in the animal that truly renewed my faith that there were still some horses that had maintained what “horses used to be”- mentally, emotionally and physically.
Oh yeah, and remember whatever goes straight up, must ride straight down, and yet I never felt worry, a misstep, or concern from the horses, even when asking them to do something they hadn’t planned to do…
6.) The horses that had issues
Ironically were the ones whose “training” was based on western society’s police/classical programs. They were not the typical 14.3-15.1H local rough stock but rather imported Thoroughbred types. They were tacked in standing martingales, double bridles, with officers holding crops and wearing spurs. The horses (and I saw this in several cities) displayed frazzled nerves as they “paroled” (or my guess would be probably “survived” in the horse’s mind) the streets of a town. Agitated, fussy, worried, and insecure and stressed out. Hmmm…
I'll be adding more about the trip when I have a few minutes!
Sam
1.) Treated Like Horses
The animals are bred in natural settings, born in nature without human assistance and raised in a herd. Because the seasons are reversed, I was present to see several births (from a distance) and then watch within a few days the colts climbing sheer 6,000-10,000 foot cliffs. They learned how to find wind blocks from the consistent 50-70mph winds. They learned how to find the snowmelt and fresh water. They learned how to forage and find the freshest grasses. And when the “unknown” approached, they were alert with a sensibility, rather than reactivity.
2.) Exposure
Although for the most part horses are kept in open range scenarios, there was also the reality that basically horse trailers don’t exist. The roads are bad at best, and it is often easier and faster to ride to where you need to go. So as you rode down the road you’d pass a variety of cars, mini semi’s, barking dogs, piles of equipment waiting to be used, the hides of various animals hanging on fence lines (as all parts of a butchered animal is used, not just the meat), etc. Keep in mind the wind is a constant, so any discarded trash, flapping tin roofs, etc. were continually flying about, making obnoxious noises, never mind the never ending barrage of random barking dogs that would appear out of nowhere.
3. Get with the program
Once you arrived, there was nothing to tie to. So it was totally normal to have a horse standing fully tacked, with the bridle on, ground tied in three feet deep lush grass, in the middle of nowhere, and wait. This could be for five minutes or five hours. During this time other horses may come or go, but if you dropped the reins, the horse realized his “job” was to watch and wait. When moving livestock on foot, the ground tied horses would move themselves to watch the working dogs and humans sort animals.
4.) Thoughtfulness vs. fleeing
I witnessed on more than one occasion if gauchos were passing through the area, they would appear and randomly let three or four of their horses loose on the side of the road to graze. FOR SEVERAL DAYS. The horses would stay put only meandering a ¼ mile or so during that time. Then the gauchos would easily catch them and ride on.
5.) “Ride or die” kind of partnership
Most people don’t realize the hidden ecosystem and phenomenal landscape that awaits at the “ends of the earth.” I’ve traveled to most continents and have been to many, many beautiful places in the world, but what I witnessed on this trip was jaw dropping. Often with amazing scenery it is gorgeous to look at from a distance, but impassible.
Unless of course you have the 4x4 version of South American horsepower. For those of you who have seen the movie, The Man From Snowy River, and know the classic “off the cliff scene,” well, that had nothing on some of the places I rode.
And I can honestly say I’ve only ridden maybe two horses in my life that I would have trusted in that extreme environment, but down south there was this confidence in the animal that truly renewed my faith that there were still some horses that had maintained what “horses used to be”- mentally, emotionally and physically.
Oh yeah, and remember whatever goes straight up, must ride straight down, and yet I never felt worry, a misstep, or concern from the horses, even when asking them to do something they hadn’t planned to do…
6.) The horses that had issues
Ironically were the ones whose “training” was based on western society’s police/classical programs. They were not the typical 14.3-15.1H local rough stock but rather imported Thoroughbred types. They were tacked in standing martingales, double bridles, with officers holding crops and wearing spurs. The horses (and I saw this in several cities) displayed frazzled nerves as they “paroled” (or my guess would be probably “survived” in the horse’s mind) the streets of a town. Agitated, fussy, worried, and insecure and stressed out. Hmmm…
I'll be adding more about the trip when I have a few minutes!
Sam
Summer 2015 Hoofprints & Happenings Newsletter
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Humans, Horses and Pressure
Horses, Humans and Pressure
When we work with a horse we primarily use two forms of
pressure to communicate, physical pressure (the lead rope attached to the
halter, the rein, the leg, the seat, etc.) or spatial pressure (not touching
the horse but able to influence his brain and movement.) Vocal commands are the
third, less common form of pressure.
A horse’s natural response to pressure is to flee from it,
become defensive towards it, or to physically “challenge” it, which causes him
to be unable to “hear” the person. The
horse needs to learn that pressure offered by a person can be a positive way to
communicate.
It should be thought of as a tool that affects the clarity
of communication between a person and their horse. It can be used to teach the horse to be
respectful towards personal space, defining literal and imaginary
boundaries. Whether from the ground or
in the saddle, teaching the horse to follow, soften and yield to the pressure
of a lead rope, rein, leg or your seat are quality and necessary aids. It should and can be used to teach the horse
to become mentally available before offering physical movement.
The term “pressure” often has a negative association due to
the misuse of it through a person’s attempts of controlling and micromanaging the
horse. Pressure forcing a horse into
submission whether through physical dominance, using gadgets and devices or
physically wearing down the horse tends to evolve into a battle of the
wills. Pressure by forcing something
upon the horse until he has to choose between the “lessors of two evils” has no
quality outcome. Physically aggressive pressure or “driving” the horse as a
tactic basically scares a horse into doing something (crossing water, trailer
loading, passing the scary spot on the trail) and contributes to distrust between
horse and person.
Due to a misunderstanding, inattentiveness, distraction, and
lack of awareness, many people unintentionally communicate a constant barrage
of chaos through both spatial and physical pressure. A “busy-ness” from a person in their activity
with the lead rope/rein/leg dulls the horse and teaches the horse to ignore the
person and become defensive towards pressure. Having slow, after-the-fact critical responses
towards their horse, inconsistently allowing behaviors, and not establishing
clear boundaries are common contributors leading to a horse’s resistance towards
any form of pressure.
People tend to hurry in life and often the same applies to
their horsemanship. Accomplishing the
“task” often becomes the focal point, rather than addressing the quality of communication
they have with their horse. As long as the horse mostly “goes along” with what
is asked, people tend to accept the horse’s behavior. But without effective “tools” (I don’t mean
gadgets, rather how a person uses pressure to communicate) they often wind up
at the “mercy” of the horse or “surviving” the ride. This then creates a cycle of worry, fear and
insecurity in both human and horse.
Take a few minutes to evaluate your relationship with your
horse, considering the following questions:
If you walk into the pasture/stall does your horse
automatically move away from you (fleeing from your spatial pressure)? Does he approach nicely but “hover” in your
personal space (delegating the pecking order of where you’re at in his herd)? If you raise your hands to halter him does he
move his head up, away, or “dive” into the halter (defensive, anticipative,
disrespectful)? When leading him is he
lethargic and slow in response, does he try to “hide” behind you as you walk,
does it feel like he is “leading” you and rushing, or does he constantly walk
with his head cranked over his shoulder with his body bumping into you?
If you walk past grass or a buddy horse does he try to drag
you over to where he wants to go? If you
ask him to stop moving using the lead rope lightly does he respond slowly, is
over-reactive, or completely ignores you?
If you walk faster or slower does he mimic your energy with his, or does
he only offer one speed irrelevant of what you’re asking?
If he is tied does he paw, wiggle, chew on the lead rope,
pull back against the rope, or move away from you as you groom/tack him? When you mount, does he stand still, walk off
before you’re ready, or fidget if asked him to stand longer than he wanted?
If you’ve answered yes to any of the above questions, there probably
needs to be a re-defining (even in “accomplished” or “broke” horses) as to their
interpretation of pressure and the quality of your communication. A person can be actively supportive of the
horse through the use of respectful pressure.
But if the horse feels defensive towards pressure, you are limiting your
tools and options when communicating, helping and supporting your horse.
The mental availability and physical behavior your horse
offers while working with him from the ground typically decreases in quality when
you ride. If you dislike what your horse
is offering now, don’t wait until later to address it. The horse feels a fly land on him, he can
feel you. If he disregards you when you
ask something minor, what will happen when you ask more of him? Any initial display of resistance will only
increase as you put him in situations that are stressful or not his idea.
Taking the time to refine the quality of the basic use of
pressure while on the ground will set the standard for the upcoming ride. Remember, the conversation starts with your
horse the moment you halter him and does not end until you turn him loose
again. At times it may feel like you are
going “slow” but in the long run you will accomplish more with a quality physical
outcome and at the same time achieve a rewarding partnership between you and
your horse.
Sam
Gratitude
Today is a day of celebration here in the USA, and it is
fitting that I have had an ongoing “theme” in my head that keeps becoming more apparent
in everything I do.
In my lifestyle every time I check one thing off of the “to
do” list, I always seem to add four more things. There is never enough time nor enough hours
in the day.
But I’ve come to accept that it is not selfish to make time
for myself to mentally, emotionally and physically re-center; this of course
affects everything that I do. So after a
10 year gap, I have finally prioritized taking the time to restart practicing yoga. For me it isn’t about physically contorting
myself into what feels most unnatural and difficult positons. It is about allowing me the opportunity to
mentally, emotionally and physically learn to be “still” and to regroup.
One of the many things taught in yoga is gratitude. This concept has been running through my head
for a while over the last few weeks, but as I was mowing in the blazing heat
today (my time-to-think) urgency came over me, that I should write a blog about
it, so here it goes.
This will be more of a rambling of thoughts to put out there
into the universe. Perhaps you’ll be
able to relate to some of my thoughts, laugh at some or they may be something
for you to consider in your own life and time spent with the horses.
I am grateful that during the past 20 years of working with
horses I have learned to listen more and more to that little “voice” in my head
that has steered me through many “forks in the road.”
I am grateful to all the horses that have taught me much
more than I will ever teach them.
I am grateful to have “been there” in the last moments of a
horse’s life, and to watch the moment they have accepted “letting go” and
peacefully passed.
I am grateful of the moments when I have been overwhelmed
and emotionally hurt, and having a horse walk up and gently rest his head near
mine, breathing softly down my neck, as if he were attempting to comfort me in
my moment of pain.
I am grateful for the opportunity to participate in the
on-going journey in both horse and human lives.
I am grateful for all of the clients who have put their
faith and trust in my words and teachings and have felt the benefit of it, not
just within the partnership with their horse, but also the trickle down affects
it has on the rest of their lives.
I am grateful for all the kids in pigtails on resistant
ponies who I have watched grow, evolve and mature into quality human beings now
leading fulfilling lives of their own.
I am grateful for the resistant, difficult and troubled
horses that force me to be the best version of myself in order for me to be
able to help them.
I am grateful for clients’ kind words that give me energy,
reinvigorate and feed my desire to continue helping those who are truly committed
to learning.
I am grateful that in all the ups and downs and
inconsistencies in the horse world that I found enough resolve within myself to
not “change” the quality of what I offered in lieu of making more money.
I am grateful to everyday be mentally present enough to slow
down and watch a butterfly land on a flower or a mama deer teach her newborn
fawn how to cross the big infield, as I sit on a horse learning how to just “stand
and wait.”
I am grateful for the hours of sweat, labor and dirt that
goes into running The Equestrian Center and am proud that when people and
horses arrive, they immediately respond to the “stillness” and sanctuary the
facility often provides.
I am grateful for all the quality horsemen who opened their
ranches and shared their knowledge with someone who didn’t “come from their
world”. Their stories of the vanishing
west, their innate understanding of the animals and their profound respect for
nature still continues to have a daily impact on my life.
I am grateful to have witnessed “behind closed doors” the
drugging, politics and abuse of the animals that during the initial years was
the only way I knew about “doing horses.”
The opportunity to have to make a choice, go against the “grain,” stand
on my own and make a moral and ethical choice at a major fork in the road were
the first steps leading to the journey I continue, even to this today.
I am grateful for small local groups to nationally recognized
organizations that have taken a risk by inviting me to share my “alternative”
perspectives and teachings with their groups.
I am grateful for the varying folks from all walks of life who
have allowed me the opportunity to share my world and spend a few weeks to a few
months here on the farm. Their initial goals
of learning about horses tend to evolve into life lessons and seem to have
lasting effects.
I am grateful to the challenges nature and her weather has
served me over the years; from extreme down pours, freezing temperatures to
scathing heat and 80 mph windstorms with severe damage; it is always humbling
to remember just how little “we are” in the grand scheme of things.
I am grateful for having to learn how to do things that don’t
come naturally, running and fixing equipment, building and mending fence…
Learning how to manage pastures, grow gardens and develop sustainable farm
practices.
I am grateful for learning how to back the 42’ horse trailer
for the times I’m in a jam and have to “squeeze in” to some inconceivable spot
while traveling on the road.
I’m grateful for the always seemingly happy tow truck
drivers who have repaired and assisted in 2am snowstorms all the while
maintaining a smile on their face.
I’m grateful for the random folks who have arrived at the
facility during their own personal growth journey and quickly realize the shared
connection we have in living a proactive life.
I am grateful for all the times I’ve proved to myself I
could do things I’d never imagined doing years before, and that years before
choices I’d made had prepared me for the moment I was at.
I am grateful to have found a calm and inner peace that
allows me perspective on anything that seems initially overwhelming, and as I’ve
learned, a few minutes, a few hours or a few days later, it just doesn’t seem
that bad anymore!
I am grateful for the hilarious antics I’ve witnessed the
horses get in to over the years. To
watch initially shut-down, unavailable horses re-emerge as curious creatures is
an amazing experience. The brightness in
their eyes, the lightness in their movements, it is breath taking.
I am grateful at the end of a long, hard day, to watch the
wild animals and horses comfortably graze in the fields with not a care in the
world. As I always say, a field just isn’t the same without a horse in it.
My list goes on and on… but I just thought it was
appropriate to share on this day.
May you carry gratitude with you in all that you do…
Sam
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