I recently had someone inquire about a horse who has bucking issues. It was a person who did not have a lot of experience and had sent their horse to a well-known training program. When their horse returned, multiple times the horse started bucking when ridden.
So their question was if I would be able to help the horse, how long it would take, Etc. This is a very common inquiry that I get.
I thought it would be helpful to share my response to the owner as many people seem to have these issues. The following is my answer:
There are several options for rehabilitating a horse that has become troubled and is now physically dangerous.
Every horse is an individual, so when horses arrive for training, the first week is an “Assessment week,” which allows me time to evaluate his current fears, insecurities, ability and willingness to learn, any potential physical/pain issues, and then approach him in a way that rebuilds his trust in humans.
By the time a horse is committed to bucking, his original “quiet” pleas for help from the human have either been missed or ignored; whether intentional or not, most folk’s priorities are to “just go ride”, often not realizing how much “help” the horse needs from the rider.
Also, if you have limited experience, you need to keep in mind that even with a lot of quality training, you will need to “be on the same page” as your horse. Sending your horse to the trainer without understanding how/what he has learned, does the owner no good.
People also often think that once a horse is “trained” it will automatically maintain the knowledge or abilities; they don’t. Every experience with the horse is a “learning” opportunity for the horse; so again, whether you mean to or not, you may be “teaching” your horse many things you don’t realize.
Also many training programs are suited to the human, rather than individualizing the methods so that it is appropriate for that particular horse. Just like humans who all have different learning styles, so do horses. Which means that many horses “go through” training programs and the more training, the worse the horse feels about the “human experience,” he may come out with some knowledge, but often there is a lot of miscommunication and defensiveness felt by the horse if he didn’t naturally fit the “program”. But this typically doesn’t show up until the horse has spent time with a less confident person, and only then, does he offer his honest opinion or show his defensiveness with dramatic and dangerous behaviors.
As far as “how long” it takes to both undo a horse’s fear and defensiveness, and re-educate the horse, all depends on the severity of the horse’s current mental and emotional state. I offer training by the week to best suit the horse’s needs, the first week is assessment week, and then we go from there. I’m big on keeping owners in the loop with weekly email updates as to the progress reports on the horse.
I require all owners to participate for at least a week with me before taking their training horse for at least five sessions.
Once your horse arrives for training, they have priority to stay however long you need.
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One person might work with a "broke" performance type horse that has been so ingrained with human expectations and patterns, and who has learned to be obedient in order to not be reprimanded, that just by being in close proximity and changing what the horse had anticipated would happen (such as not catching as soon as you enter his pen) and watch the horse's emotional roller coaster as years of pent up obedience and emotional containment are purged...
Another person might work on the nuances of rebuilding a horse's curiosity and trust after years of the human experience causing that horse to mentally shut down and check out causing the horse to outwardly seem physically quiet, but internally is quite troubled.
Someone else may encourage their horse, while at liberty, to learn to mentally search and make decisions, without being "driven", chased or scared into brainless and reactive physical movement, rather instead offering thoughtful and intentional steps.
Another person might practice learning to refine their feel and time while riding, as they raise their standard of softness and clarity towards the horse...
Someone else may be learning how to recognize from how they're sitting in the saddle, where they're horse's feet are underneath them, to offer the clearest aid to influence the ideal movement.
Another might be working with a young horse building a solid foundation of learning "how to learn" with thoughtful intention as new things are introduced, that will be used in future rides.
The horses breeds, ages, experiences are all varied. The disciplines, participants, experience levels, and their backgrounds are even more diverse.
And all the while, it might be blustery wind gusts, freezing temps, peaceful and warm, sleeting rain... The weather is irrelevant... the location doesn't matter... the "accomplishment" of a task is ignored... rather it is all about the conversation between the human and horse. Soft, clear and intentional.
It is only then that you see the worry and peak lines on the horse's face disappear, the muscles in the horse and human's body relax, and both take a deep, quiet, body-replenishing breath of air, while experiencing a shared peacefulness of being mentally, emotionally and physically present.
Less than ideal circumstances leading to better partnerships
Thought for the day...
Often when weather conditions and circumstances are out of our control or are not ideal, we tend to shy away from spending time with our horses in order to avoid potential conflict or issues. For me I find some of the most successful learning situations is when our surroundings are less than ideal.
Yesterday was a great example. Here in the desert of southwest Arizona we had a blusterous 20 mile an hour windstorm that was sandblasting from all directions. Being close to a Marine base, we also had F-35 Jets flying overhead, so close that you actually vibrate from the Jet's power. Trash and tumbleweeds were blowing everywhere. Palm trees were bent over.
I've included two pics which don't nearly give you a clear enough idea, but to see the flag standing straight out gives you an idea of how strong the wind was.
Two days before, a three-year-old horse had arrived for training. The first day we had just worked on the concept of softening to pressure on the leadrope. We didn't move farther than 40 feet from his stall. I introduced the ideas of being able to first look and think, and then move. Also the concept that he looks where he's going while he moves, rather than looking at everything except where he's going. The concept of personal space and that if he is asked to do something, he needs to try to address what is being asked of him the first time and not that it takes a huge amount of energy to get him to listen. Also the concept that he can stand over grass and wait quietly without constantly trying to lunge for the grass and eat. It was a lot for his young brain. And yet there was no running, no fleeing, no chasing, no driving, no scaring him, in order to help him learn. Just simple conversation creating boundaries of what behaviors worked and those that did not. Lots of blinking, licking, chewing, and yawning from him.
So the second day is when the wind storm hit us. It was so bad you couldn't see 40 feet out because of the sand and debris in the air. And yet I brought him into the round pen to work with him at liberty for the first time. For me the round pen is not a place to chase/run the horse into submission. It is rather a safe setting that allows the horse to learn to search to find what is being asked of him, without scaring him or driving him into giving up. There was distractions of other horses running around, other animals running around the farm, metal roofs flapping, and yet through simple trial and error (communicated through spatial pressure and release w the lead rope hanging at my side), the young horse was able to let go of all of the mental distractions until he could focus on just me. He learned how to be with me without spatially walking on top of me even though he was loose. He learned how to stop and look at the distractions and then bring his attention back to me when I asked him to. And then he learned how to leave me to move around the rail of the pen, without flee or chaotic energy, rather mimicking whatever energy I was offering from the center of the pen. Then when I decreased my energy and moved away from the center of the pen, he learned to come in and be with me respectfully, quietly waiting for whatever I asked of him next. If you had only seen him you'd never know there was so much distraction and Chaos going on around us.
So the next time the weather or situation is less than ideal, remember it might be the perfect opportunity, because you may have to face addressing small issues that in the past you've wanted to mask or smooth over rather than getting to the root cause. Being forced to confront those small issues is a wonderful preventative measure for them not to evolve causing major issues further down the road.
Often when weather conditions and circumstances are out of our control or are not ideal, we tend to shy away from spending time with our horses in order to avoid potential conflict or issues. For me I find some of the most successful learning situations is when our surroundings are less than ideal.
Yesterday was a great example. Here in the desert of southwest Arizona we had a blusterous 20 mile an hour windstorm that was sandblasting from all directions. Being close to a Marine base, we also had F-35 Jets flying overhead, so close that you actually vibrate from the Jet's power. Trash and tumbleweeds were blowing everywhere. Palm trees were bent over.
I've included two pics which don't nearly give you a clear enough idea, but to see the flag standing straight out gives you an idea of how strong the wind was.
Two days before, a three-year-old horse had arrived for training. The first day we had just worked on the concept of softening to pressure on the leadrope. We didn't move farther than 40 feet from his stall. I introduced the ideas of being able to first look and think, and then move. Also the concept that he looks where he's going while he moves, rather than looking at everything except where he's going. The concept of personal space and that if he is asked to do something, he needs to try to address what is being asked of him the first time and not that it takes a huge amount of energy to get him to listen. Also the concept that he can stand over grass and wait quietly without constantly trying to lunge for the grass and eat. It was a lot for his young brain. And yet there was no running, no fleeing, no chasing, no driving, no scaring him, in order to help him learn. Just simple conversation creating boundaries of what behaviors worked and those that did not. Lots of blinking, licking, chewing, and yawning from him.
So the second day is when the wind storm hit us. It was so bad you couldn't see 40 feet out because of the sand and debris in the air. And yet I brought him into the round pen to work with him at liberty for the first time. For me the round pen is not a place to chase/run the horse into submission. It is rather a safe setting that allows the horse to learn to search to find what is being asked of him, without scaring him or driving him into giving up. There was distractions of other horses running around, other animals running around the farm, metal roofs flapping, and yet through simple trial and error (communicated through spatial pressure and release w the lead rope hanging at my side), the young horse was able to let go of all of the mental distractions until he could focus on just me. He learned how to be with me without spatially walking on top of me even though he was loose. He learned how to stop and look at the distractions and then bring his attention back to me when I asked him to. And then he learned how to leave me to move around the rail of the pen, without flee or chaotic energy, rather mimicking whatever energy I was offering from the center of the pen. Then when I decreased my energy and moved away from the center of the pen, he learned to come in and be with me respectfully, quietly waiting for whatever I asked of him next. If you had only seen him you'd never know there was so much distraction and Chaos going on around us.
So the next time the weather or situation is less than ideal, remember it might be the perfect opportunity, because you may have to face addressing small issues that in the past you've wanted to mask or smooth over rather than getting to the root cause. Being forced to confront those small issues is a wonderful preventative measure for them not to evolve causing major issues further down the road.
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Client feedback... Success over time
Over the past few days I've heard "feedback" from clients both in the States and abroad. If you've ever read anything from my blog, website or posts on FB, you'll quickly realize I do not offer the "quick fix" or "easy answers" in my approaches to helping horses feel better about life. It is slow, intentional communication, and often it requires a rebuilding of the foundation of the partnership, in order for the rides to be successful.
I always say I try to teach and offer "tools" in how we communicate with our horses so that clients don't "need me", but rather they can assess, think through, and then help their horse through scenarios in order to have a positive, confidence building outcome for both the horse and rider.
I LOVE hearing stories of success; not because "my way" works, it isn't about me or the ways I've found work, it is about owners/riders being open minded enough to put their own egos aside, and to BELIEVE their horses when they are troubled, when they ask for help. Time and again, those who support their horses through uncomfortable moments, rather than challenge them through them, see amazing, long lasting changes.
So "Good on you," as I say, to those folks dedicated to being open to having an honest conversation with their horse, patient enough to respect what the horse is saying, and kind enough to search within themselves to how best to help their horse.
That is how we reach those almost perfect moments of being completing in sync with our equine partners, and it makes it all worth it. Happy riding!
I always say I try to teach and offer "tools" in how we communicate with our horses so that clients don't "need me", but rather they can assess, think through, and then help their horse through scenarios in order to have a positive, confidence building outcome for both the horse and rider.
I LOVE hearing stories of success; not because "my way" works, it isn't about me or the ways I've found work, it is about owners/riders being open minded enough to put their own egos aside, and to BELIEVE their horses when they are troubled, when they ask for help. Time and again, those who support their horses through uncomfortable moments, rather than challenge them through them, see amazing, long lasting changes.
So "Good on you," as I say, to those folks dedicated to being open to having an honest conversation with their horse, patient enough to respect what the horse is saying, and kind enough to search within themselves to how best to help their horse.
That is how we reach those almost perfect moments of being completing in sync with our equine partners, and it makes it all worth it. Happy riding!
Learning through Auditing: Improving your Horsemanship
Proactive Riding- Raising the Rider’s Awareness
Creating conditioned and patternized behaviors, or routines,
while interacting with our horses can lead to “dishonest” conversations between
the human and the horse. Whether heading
out on a trail ride or focusing in the arena, there frequently is a sense of “wonder”
from the rider regarding what the ride will “be like” on any given day. I dislike repetitive movement as there
becomes a familiarity and “dullness” to the conversation between the horse and
human leading to brainless responses and a lack of adaptability. The day the
person changes the routine their “quiet” horse becomes a fire breathing dragon
because the pattern has changed.
There should be no mystery when working with our horses. Every
interaction with the horse is an indication as to what is about to come. Weather issues, location limitations, and time
urgencies can influence people and horses falling into behaviors that
contribute to a lack of awareness, lack of clear intention and lack of mental
presence.
Unfortunately the standard with horses is that as long as
the horse isn’t offering enough resistant behavior that the human sees their
life flashing before their eyes, dramatic behaviors from the horse are
tolerated. Anticipative movement, the
lack of softness towards a light rein, seat or leg pressure, the dramatic,
flamboyant responses to an aid, are all indications that the horse’s brain and
emotions are having a problem, and therefore his physical response will mimic
the worry, fear, pain, insecurity, misunderstanding, leading to a less than
ideal ride.
Assess your relationship with your horse by asking yourself
the following: Do you work with your
horse at the same time of day? Catch him in the same manner? Enter/exit the gate the same way?
Tie/groom/tack up in the same place? Mount from the same side, in the same
location? Start off always tracking in one direction? These basic behaviors when done without
intention, lead to mentally unavailable and resistant horses.
The moment you think about going for a ride, the ride
begins. “Reality,” other distractions and
stresses from life need to be put on hold. To be proactive by making decisions to
influence how the ride will go, you’ll need a mental clarity as to what you’re
doing, how you’re doing it, and why you’re doing it. Every moment you’re in close proximity to
your horse, you are teaching him something, whether or not you mean to.
Mental presence allows you to honestly assess what your
horse is offering in his behaviors. My
approach is to first address the horse’s brain, and then the desired movement
will follow. Opportunities for assessment can begin in the pasture or stall;
notice if your horse moves off as you approach?
If so, why? Is he distracted by
new events at the barn? Wildlife that recently passed by? Does he prefer to
stay with the herd rather than being ridden? You may not initially have a clear
understanding of his behavior, but it will be the beginning of awareness from
you of noticing initial resistance from him and be able to prioritize
addressing it before you ride.
As you lead, is he ahead of you physically and actually
“leading you”? If so, he’s already telling you what the ride is going to be
like. If he believes from the start that
he is in charge, by the time you’re in the saddle, you’ll be at his mercy.
If he is pulling, hanging or ignoring your pressure with the
lead rope while you’re on the ground, he’s already telling you he is going to
be heavy on the bit and slow to respond with the rein. Why wait until you’re in the saddle to
address his concept, or lack thereof, of following, softening or yielding to
pressure?
If he’s become fussy as you tack up as you ride more
frequently, have you assessed if your saddle is fitting correctly? Perhaps pain
issues from ill fitting tack have begun, and you’ve assumed he’s just being
difficult with his excessive movement. He
only has so many ways to convey his distress before he has to increase his behaviors
until you can no longer ignore them.
Humans often anthromoporphize equine behaviors, giving human
characteristics to them and wrongly interpreting what is occurring. Taking the
time to slow ourselves down from the rushing mentality, by addressing the
little details, can help us break down overwhelming scenarios and understand
our horse’s behavior.
By learning to recognize the signs leading up to potentially
unwanted behavior, we can influence a change within the horse, before he has committed
to doing something we don’t want. But the
small details, the finesse isn’t the “fun” or “exciting” way of doing things, therefore
we humans bring chaos to horses, causing much turmoil.
Let us raise our standards.
What if the new “normal” became a horse that presented himself quietly
to be caught irrelevant of if feed had just been put out in the pasture or riding
at an odd time of day? Ignoring discipline, riding goals or experience, what if
we could straight tie, ground tie or cross tie our horse in a field, to a
trailer, or to a post, as we groomed and tacked up, without any fussing,
wiggling, pawing, swinging of the hindquarters, holding his breath while we tightened
the saddle, or tossing his head while we bridled him? Let’s be practical and
forgo outdated tradition and learn to mount/dismount from either side on the
ground, from the fence or a mounting block, without having to lead our horse to
a spot and quickly scramble on while holding the reins tight to prevent him from
walking off. What if at any point we
expected our horse could stand mentally and emotionally calm and therefore
physically relaxed, rather than anticipative of what we might ask next.
If the above mentioned behaviors became our basic foundation
that we built our partnership with our horses on, imagine the
possibilities. Here’s to proactive
riding and raising our awareness!
Making Summer Memories...
It is a
glorious summer day and I just returned from adventures down back country
roads, where folks pull over and fill up water bottles at natural springs; where you slow down and smile as you pass the 1950’s tractor steadily rolling
down the road after a hard day of baling hay. It is a place where you wave at
the passing train and the engineer honks the horn and waves back
enthusiastically… Where you watch elk graze in the early dusk, eagles and osprey soar above the
hay fields, and deer help their young cross the road. Whether it is folks casting their reels
hoping for the next great fishing story, families and friends floating down the emerald rivers, or children making memories at summer camp that will influence their
future perspectives on life, nature and decisions, nothing holds a candle to
watching a group of riders emerge between the same mountains that Lewis and Clark, David
Thompson and other explorers have made famous.
It has been
unseasonably warm and at 104 degrees F, and as I sat watching the riders make their way down
to a creek that intercepted with a phenomenal river, untack, climb aboard bareback, and without hesitation plunge into the waters, was priceless. As the scene before me unfolded, a
newly released song came on the radio; it was talking about the “last firsts.”
And often as it seems to be with music, hearing it, along with seeing the horse events unfolding before me,
brought me back to my own many firsts I’ve had with horses. I was feeling a bit
emotional as I reminisced about how many memories I had that were horse
related, and how quickly I could close my eyes and “be” immediately back in a
time and place many years before. I
could smell the horse sweat, taste the grit in my mouth, feel the heat of the
sun glaring down on me.
It didn’t
matter if it had been years before when I’d been riding in the snow crested peaks
of the Pacific Northwest mountings (even in July,) battling a blizzard trailing
sheep in tip of the Patagonian mountains, taking a Mediterranean “short cut”
crossing via an inlet feeling the power of my horse swimming through the turquoise ocean, trailing cattle through the high desert
with giant saguaro cactus towering above, or riding barefoot, bareback and in a
halter at the rear of a herd of summer camp horses… whether it’d been 30 years
ago or just a few years prior, those experiences are forever imprinted in my
mind and emotions.
I’m not particularly a touchy/feely kinda gal; a
lifetime of living in a “man’s world” creates an emotional distancing of
oneself, a lifestyle of relying solely on yourself creates callouses not only on your
hands but in your ability to rationalize decisions and a self imposed “durability”
over the years leads to a relentlessness that would overwhelm most folks if they
were faced with the decisions I make on a regular basis. But when I think back
to those invaluable equine moments, all of my toughness dissolves immediately.
The point of
sharing all of this is that as I drove the other day and watched the kids and
adults share that bonding moment with their horses, I realized that it was a
once-in-a-lifetime moment that they’d never lose. I find most things that get shared via social
media are done so because of the emotional draw. People who’ve been in major traumatic
accidents with horses and yet push through the recovery with the goal of returning to the saddle again
are inspired purely based on their emotions. Those folks who save horses from
abuse, potential slaughter or neglect, to those who see colts and dream of
their future blue sky potential, (if a person has nothing financial to gain,) the
draw is always the emotional release horses offer us humans.
For some
reason from the time of marching into battle thousands of years ago with the
armies of Genghis Khan to jumping insane modern day obstacles, to the backyard
kid, to the die hard Pony Clubber, from the hunter who religiously packs into
the backcountry in search of their winter harvest, to the social trail rider,
from the Amateur competitor to the rehabilitative experience of just being within
close proximity to a horse, these equines continue to give, and give and give
to us humans.
I was
recently regaled with a few stories from new clients, returning clients and folks I’d
just talked to and given advice to over the phone and via email correspondence. They each came back with these heart-warming
stories of the life-changing experiences they’d had recently with their horses
based on advice I’d offered or after lessons/training with me.
The one
shared theme as they told of their individual experiences was the emotional
release, empowerment and long term confidence they had developed from their journey
with their horse.
Because I
don’t “only” work with one discipline, breed, or level rider, I’ve begun to
realize a huge part of the inspiration of what I try to offer folks is the
ability to “read” the horses, make rational decisions riding in “real time,” and
offer them effective tools to clearly communicate. This all can contribute to them then having
those “life changing” moments with the horses. It also allows a mental and emotional "freedom" that I find is rare within the equine world of rules, traditions and restrictions.
Often the conversation one has with the horse, really resonates in all aspects of the person's life, it isn’t “just” about horses or
riding. The horses tend to draw
the best and worst out of people; I imagine it has a lot to do with their
honesty and black and white interpretation of the world around them.
I’ve found
that this summer I’ve been slowing down more, I’ve been watching more,
listening more, and more contemplative. I feel that sometimes as I watch the
behaviors, I yet again refine my initial interpretations of what I see, to best
understand and improve how I communicate with horses and humans alike. And it all comes out in my lessons, clinics
and training. I can literally see the
changes in humans and horses alike. I believe our journey of
horsemanship never ends; there is always more to learn, see, try and do. Every horse and every scenario is an
opportunity for us to learn from, embrace and evolve from.
So, maybe you
can take a few minutes and whether you just stroll down memory lane or actually
jot something down, perhaps you can practice a few minutes of thankfulness as
you explore memories of what horses have taught you, forced you to confront
about yourself, and inspired you. I
think if we brought more appreciation to the horse (even the frustrating,
challenging and difficult ones) then our partnership with our horses, would have stronger bonds and increased quality experiences. If we humans spent less time
comparing how much “we” accomplished and more time on making quality memories,
ironically “we’d” get a lot more done with our horses.
So please, I
encourage you to set out with a smile the
next time you approach your horse, take every unexpected experience as
an opportunity to evolve and build upon, and I promise you, it’ll make you a
better leader for your horse and emotionally happier.
Sam
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